Hi
Suggest re the driving you visit the DVLA web site
DVLA Web Site
and see what is detailed
Medical Rules for driving
suggest you take a look at the download on
DVLA Medical at a glance
For me personally I gave us as my vision was too up and down. And I too found at the hospital they did not advise one way or the other as some times I was ok and some times not, which in itself was really inconvenient especially as it swapped and changed about so much. In this respect I filled the forms in sent them off and surrendered my licence (not hreat and took a bit of getting used to but better than a fine or a serious accident, which may or may not have been my fault however, I knew I would take the blame for if I did not meet the legal standard when tested).
As for your other comments about treatments and expected recoveries well maybe if after your next appointment you are still concerned you need to seek a second opinion. Personally it would seem to silly to go through a graft and what is infact quite major transplant surgery if things were not to get much better for you afterwards.
What I have always found about appointments is that I used to tend to come out afterwards kicking myself as I had forgotten to ask something or had been told something, didn't understand and had not asked for clarification. Maybe your consultant did not make himself clear.
As you are due to go back in a few weeks I would start to make a list of questions and if possible arrange to take someone with you who can think straight and not be totally consumed by whatever news you are given. I for one tended to stop listening when things got really bad, not intentionally it just happened!
Have the hospital tried contact lenses? Does the hospital you visit have a specialist contact lens fitting clinic which you have visited or are you already aware that you cannot tolerate any sort of lenses - maybe in 6 years things will have moved on with refards to lenses and things maybe better for you.
Hope all goes well at your next appointment.
don't let the people that mean nothing to you get you down, because in the end they are worth nothing to you, they are just your obstacles in life to trip you up!