Reality

[reality]

I'd just like to say sorry for my comments earlier on today which I edited. I let my anger get the better of me and posted an abusive message.

Sorry.

[GarethB]

Why has noone acknowledged the above appolgy?

On the main board a few others went off in what might be considerd an agressive manner.

What on earth is happeing?

Think the sun has gone to poeples heads.

[Anne B]

Gareth,

I think maybe if reality started a new topic and told us all a little about himselve and his KC it might help.
At the moment i'm still not sure who he/she is. And if i met someone on the street and the first thing they spoke about was masturbating, I wouldn't want to get involved with that person.
I hope that makes sense

Anne

[jayuk]

Anne

You make the point in the best way!

The history of both messages and initial responses were adeqaute...thereafter well...the rest is history!

J

[GarethB]

All of these points were brough to Realitys attention in a pm and I am sure now things have been put into conext the appropriate help is being sought.

Will not explain further as Reality gave me some information in strict confidence and it is up to them to add that information here.

[samba_elite]

I think all of you should lighten up, i posted in the general forum and i think my post was constructive,if no one likes it then tough,we ARE all different after all.

Every group of people will have absolute legends,w***ers,mediocre people,quiet types and outspoken zealots,hypocrites,livewires and bores, a KC forum is no different to a bus queue,a pub full of drinkers or a workplace,just because one bloke says something utterly ridiculous it dosent mean the whole board has to be thrown into disarray over it.

I'm a moderator on a forum that would shock you with some of the opinions,banter and outbursts,embrace it all,good and bad,sometimes it needs the mould to be broken,topics fizzle out or give people a channel to have a right old rant,they dont need closing or damning.

[Andrew MacLean]

Maybe for the sake of readers we ought to deal with some prejudices.

It is probably worth saying that sex with yourself is, in terms of physiological responses, probably no different to sex with another person.

I daresay somebody has done some research on this but I am prepared to venture that both in men and women sexual stimulation of any sort is likely to lead to elevated heart rate and correspondingly elevated blood pressure. In this regard, sex is like any other form of mil, or even strnuous exercise.

In some situations there can be positive health benefits to the responses of the body in sexual stimulation. I think Lou posted some off beat research that suggested that a 'snog' (her word) reduces the propensity to hay fever.

Within the Judeo Christian tradition there is much debate on the whole issue of human sexual conduct. There is a reasonable summary of this discussion at http://www.ldolphin.org/Mast.shtml

On a slightly oblique note here is a conumdrum answered: how can you make sex boring? Get an old Scottish Presbytrian to write an article about it!

[GarethB]

Andrew,

It wasn't you who wrote it then.

I can not imagine you discussing any subject and being boring.

[Andrew MacLean]

Actually the link is to an article that I found quite interesting!

Andrew