Hi Andrew, Yes, I am aware about the cornea thickness. I'm not sure if she will even be able to be treated as she will probably need to be sedated or given a GA just to get any measurements done. As I have said earlier, my biggest fear is that she suffers from hydrops in her right eye, effectively making her blind. She's probably legally blind anyway as her left eye is still very cloudy from hydrops even though the herniation isn't so visible any more and her right eye very conical.
The whole situation feels so hopeless. There's a whole range of treatments out there that are available - only not for her! I spend hours on the internet every night trying to find any positive stories that are relevant to my situation but nothing is there. All the stories I have read about special needs people all seem to be quite high operating individuals so are able to be helped. Being the parent of a severely disabled child has changed our lives in a huge way, but I used to get some relief by knowing that she was being well taken care of but now I don't feel the same way. I'm relying on people who don't love my daughter as much as me to make sure she is safe, well cared for and her health monitored. I know they do the best they can BUT with every change of staff there is the risk that something is missed - just because they are so busy. She has nearly died on several occasions by choking because a new staff member felt sorry that Jen is missing out because she needs her food well chopped (she has swallowing difficulties). They'll give her a whole apple or banana which she can sometimes cope with BUT sometimes she can't. I feel that Jennifer now needs one on one care so that is my next challenge. Our government isn't too forth coming with money for our special people so it's difficult.
Sorry for the ramble but this issue with her eyes has really upset me and then brings out all the things I have feared regarding her welfare.
Better go and eat chocolate!! No - already did that tonight - maybe a wine!!
