GRAFT ON MONDAY AND GENERAL UPDATE
Posted: Thu 26 Feb 2009 9:57 am
Hi Folks,
Its been a while since I last posted so Happy New Year to you all. I hope you all had a good time over xmas.
I 've had a lot going on in recent months with ill family members, preparing to take my employer to a tribunal together with trying to move house.
As you know ny employer was extremely unhelpful, unsupportive and blatantly ignored my disability and needs. AFter being of sick from Jan last year, having intacs that didnt improve my vision I set about with help from Action For the Blind to return to work with the installation of visual aids. My employer never contacted me whilst I was off and was never concerned as to how I was progressing following my intacs op. I had information that lead me to believe they were trying to make me redundant and this is exactly what they tried to do when I initiated a return to work plan - they even ignored my calls and letters for a couple of months. I sought legal advice together with help and support from my local Action for the Blind and instigated a grievance that they had discriminated against me - which clearly they had. Initally I was prepared to take this all the way to court .After 9 months of wrangling, a legal bill of £1000 and also being told that a court date wouldn't be till Sept this year I decided enough was enough and settled my claim and took my redundancy. It was a very very long story, the games they played, the lies they told are too long to list but should anyone need to know any facts or are finding themselves in the same position then please shout via a PM. The toll of preparing documents and many appointments/phone calls with legal people wasn't easy and I just wanted it over and be able to move on with my life before my graft next week.
So that brings me to my graft!! I am really worried. I've read so many good and bad stories sometimes its hard to believe that I am going to be any better off. But all I can do is hope that it will be successful.
It was very disappointing that intacs didnt improve my vision as I was very much hoping that they would. I never thought 12years ago when I was diagnosed that I would be having a transplant. I am so concerned I will loose my vision. One day I feel positive and the next its negative.
I am really interested to learn from those who have had a graft in recent years what there activity levels were in the first few weeks. We are in the process of moving house. Moving out was originally planned for early last week, but unfortunately its dragged on and we are still here and are likely to be for a couple of weeks. The house is about 80% packed up but still there will be a lot to do when the time comes and I am not the type of person who can sit and do nothing when there is so much to do. Needless to say I am wondering how much I am going to be able to do.
Do I have to sit and do nothing for a month or so???
ali x
Its been a while since I last posted so Happy New Year to you all. I hope you all had a good time over xmas.
I 've had a lot going on in recent months with ill family members, preparing to take my employer to a tribunal together with trying to move house.
As you know ny employer was extremely unhelpful, unsupportive and blatantly ignored my disability and needs. AFter being of sick from Jan last year, having intacs that didnt improve my vision I set about with help from Action For the Blind to return to work with the installation of visual aids. My employer never contacted me whilst I was off and was never concerned as to how I was progressing following my intacs op. I had information that lead me to believe they were trying to make me redundant and this is exactly what they tried to do when I initiated a return to work plan - they even ignored my calls and letters for a couple of months. I sought legal advice together with help and support from my local Action for the Blind and instigated a grievance that they had discriminated against me - which clearly they had. Initally I was prepared to take this all the way to court .After 9 months of wrangling, a legal bill of £1000 and also being told that a court date wouldn't be till Sept this year I decided enough was enough and settled my claim and took my redundancy. It was a very very long story, the games they played, the lies they told are too long to list but should anyone need to know any facts or are finding themselves in the same position then please shout via a PM. The toll of preparing documents and many appointments/phone calls with legal people wasn't easy and I just wanted it over and be able to move on with my life before my graft next week.
So that brings me to my graft!! I am really worried. I've read so many good and bad stories sometimes its hard to believe that I am going to be any better off. But all I can do is hope that it will be successful.
It was very disappointing that intacs didnt improve my vision as I was very much hoping that they would. I never thought 12years ago when I was diagnosed that I would be having a transplant. I am so concerned I will loose my vision. One day I feel positive and the next its negative.
I am really interested to learn from those who have had a graft in recent years what there activity levels were in the first few weeks. We are in the process of moving house. Moving out was originally planned for early last week, but unfortunately its dragged on and we are still here and are likely to be for a couple of weeks. The house is about 80% packed up but still there will be a lot to do when the time comes and I am not the type of person who can sit and do nothing when there is so much to do. Needless to say I am wondering how much I am going to be able to do.
Do I have to sit and do nothing for a month or so???
ali x