Hello
Glad to see someone else new as well! I really hope that the fitting goes well, im sure we all remember what it was like to get our first lenses, though mine is coming up to 13 years now!
As for asking questions i agree with what others have put here, you need to ask! As you are new to lenses, it won't seem stupid or anything. If you don't ask now you might feel more awkward later when you will be thinking that you are supposed to know!! (if that made sense!!)
I have been to about 7 different doctors now as i move house a lot and throughout school and uni so i can say that from my experience everyone is different and they all recommend different things!! I think that you just need to ask, and as you will find out, you will learn loads through trial and error and of course experience!
On eyedrops, i think there aren't many that i haven't tried. I have gone back to Systane now as my eyes are very dry and sore, it has been a while since i last tried them, and people here say it is really good. You can buy so many over the counter that i think you need to experiment with what you like. Eyedrops can be expensive, but im sure that you will learn that it is really important!! I am lucky that if i am really stuck, being a nurse i have access to saline, though this is very drying it is useful in an emergency. I am sure though that as with most here, i NEVER leave the house without a spare lens, contact case and eyedrops. I wonder sometimes how i ever get anything in my nurses uniform with the amount of things i have to carry!!!
I am sure that you will get there though, wishing you the best of luck!! Take care
Claire X