Advice needed please
Posted: Thu 25 Nov 2004 11:33 am
Hello everyone,
I am new to the forum here & am writing on behalf of my daughter, Penny.
Penny has a rare chromosmal condition known as Extra Partial Trisomy9p. We have never met any other families with the same diagnosis but have "met" others from the USA & Australia via the internet. Keratoconus doesn't seem to be typical.
We desperately need help please if anyone has any ideas. Penny has keratoconus & had a graft to 1 eye when she was 14 (she is now 23).The KC in the right eye is advanced but I have been delaying having her put on the waiting list as it is such a drastic procedure.
Penny attends the Royal Eye Hospital in Manchester which I believe gives the best care in this region.
Last week we attended her routine appointment & I got a huge shock when tests showed that she couldn't focus her eyes so could not achieve any scores at all when trying to read letters. Penny has severe learning difficulties but is on outgoing, feisty character who would lead quite an independent life if she didn't have the added "bonus" of her visual difficulties. Her previous appointment was in August when there was a slight deterioration in her vision, but now, come November.....
Penny now needs electo-diagnosis & I have just learned that the wait for this is up to 4 months in this area! Can we go elsewhere? Can this be done privately & if so, what is the cost? What could all this mean for her?
I feel so guilty because she has consistently complained of pain (but she always does) & I didn't realise what was happening-even when she was constantly asking me to clean her glasses. Also, she had been complaining of feeling tired all the time & taking herself off to bed. Again,it should have rung alarm bells.
We're both very low at the moment-I'm not getting any sleep & it's going to be incredibly difficult to keep Penny motivated. Already she has had several "temper tantrums" as she is frightened & given that she is taller than me & a stone or more heavier I can see the months ahead being unbelievably difficult (aggression is typical of Trisomy9). I have been knocked off my feet several times in the past.
Sorry to offload like this, especially in a first post, but I'm a single parent of 4 (Dad decided he couldn't cope with a special needs child). Penny is the 3rd child & the eldest 2 have homes of their own now.
I would be grateful to hear anyone's ideas/advice,
If you've reached this far in the post-thanks for your patience,
Ann & Penny
I am new to the forum here & am writing on behalf of my daughter, Penny.
Penny has a rare chromosmal condition known as Extra Partial Trisomy9p. We have never met any other families with the same diagnosis but have "met" others from the USA & Australia via the internet. Keratoconus doesn't seem to be typical.
We desperately need help please if anyone has any ideas. Penny has keratoconus & had a graft to 1 eye when she was 14 (she is now 23).The KC in the right eye is advanced but I have been delaying having her put on the waiting list as it is such a drastic procedure.
Penny attends the Royal Eye Hospital in Manchester which I believe gives the best care in this region.
Last week we attended her routine appointment & I got a huge shock when tests showed that she couldn't focus her eyes so could not achieve any scores at all when trying to read letters. Penny has severe learning difficulties but is on outgoing, feisty character who would lead quite an independent life if she didn't have the added "bonus" of her visual difficulties. Her previous appointment was in August when there was a slight deterioration in her vision, but now, come November.....
Penny now needs electo-diagnosis & I have just learned that the wait for this is up to 4 months in this area! Can we go elsewhere? Can this be done privately & if so, what is the cost? What could all this mean for her?
I feel so guilty because she has consistently complained of pain (but she always does) & I didn't realise what was happening-even when she was constantly asking me to clean her glasses. Also, she had been complaining of feeling tired all the time & taking herself off to bed. Again,it should have rung alarm bells.
We're both very low at the moment-I'm not getting any sleep & it's going to be incredibly difficult to keep Penny motivated. Already she has had several "temper tantrums" as she is frightened & given that she is taller than me & a stone or more heavier I can see the months ahead being unbelievably difficult (aggression is typical of Trisomy9). I have been knocked off my feet several times in the past.
Sorry to offload like this, especially in a first post, but I'm a single parent of 4 (Dad decided he couldn't cope with a special needs child). Penny is the 3rd child & the eldest 2 have homes of their own now.
I would be grateful to hear anyone's ideas/advice,
If you've reached this far in the post-thanks for your patience,
Ann & Penny