I was prepared, had read up on KC, got my list of questions and off we went.
It was clear on arrival at 3.20pm that we would be in for a long wait, there were signs on the walls talking about the virtue of patience, that there are likely to be delays etc. So we waited....patiently.
An hour later my son was called through. It was clear from the start that the young Dr was under great time pressure. He didn't listen when my son tried to explain and was very chaotic in mannerisms and in what he said. He had no time to listen to our questions but talked over us and rushed us through the appointment. At one point I lost my temper (regrettable) and I told him I felt he wasn't listening to us.
It is clear KC is a routine thing to them. It isn't to us.
So.....how thick are his corneas I asked. Answer? 'That is irrelevant'. I argued that it was relevant and would surely be a factor if in-tacs and/or cross-linking might be considered suitable for him. Answer 'the corneal thickness is different across the cornea so I can't answer that'.
OK, I'll change the question said I 'At the thinnest point, what thickness is the cornea?'
That gives you a flavour of what it was like. I feel so flat. My son is not a number. I was also told to 'forget talk of in-tacs and cross-linking' lets just see if contac lenses will work.
To cap it all when I persisted in wanting to understand about in-tacs etc I was told our Trust won't pay for either in-tacs or cross-linking anyway and he said if that did become something to consider, he'd refer me to some private place in East Grinstead (over 2 hours away!) I said that I would prefer my son be referred to an NHS Trust that DOES offer the intervention on the NHS if it comes to that.
The whole thing felt rushed, unconfortable and chaotic. The only 'ok' part was the time spent with the optometrist who tried a lens in my son's eye to see if it helped his vision. Without aid, he could just about make out the top letter with his right eye and that was all

I felt so sad for my son - a bit of compassion wouldn't have gone a miss. Feeling very flat. Sorry for the rant.