I do not see that there is any incompatibility between seeing an optician and going to a hospital clinic. Most of us do, or did both.
with regular visits to an Ophthalmologist I also continued to see an Optometrist who kept me in contact lenses of various sorts for many years before I submitted to surgery.
In my experience the Ophthalmologist did not press the idea of surgery on me; he gave advice and I made my decisions on the basis of the best advice he had to offer weighed against a combination of the relative comfort and effectiveness of a succession of contact lenses and my fundamental fear of the scalpel.

I'm sorry we were slow in getting back to you.
Andrew